ever
ever meaning ‘at any time’
Ever is a ‘non-affirmative word’ (see here). It is used especially in questions to mean ‘at any time’. Compare:
- Do you ever go to London by train? (= at any time)
- I always go to London by train. (= every time)
- I sometimes go to Birmingham by train.
- I never go to Cambridge by train. (= at no time)
Ever is possible in negative clauses, but never is more usual than not ever.
- I don’t ever want to see you again. (or I never want …)
We also use ever after if, and with words that express a negative idea (like nobody, hardly or stop).
- Come and see us if you are ever in Manchester.
- Nobody ever visits them.
- I hardly ever see my sister.
- I’m going to stop her ever doing that again.
With comparatives, superlatives, as and only
Ever is used in affirmative clauses in comparisons and with only.
- You’re looking lovelier than ever.
- What is the best book you’ve ever read?
- It’s the largest picture ever painted.
- He’s as charming as ever.
- She’s the only woman ever to have climbed this mountain in winter.
ever + perfect
Ever is often used with perfect tenses ( (see here), (see here) to mean ‘at any time up to now/then’.
- Have you ever been to Greece?
- Had you ever thought of getting married before you met Georgia?
ever and before; ever before
Ever and before can both be used to mean ‘at any time in the past’, but there is a difference. Before (or ever before) refers to a present event, and asks whether it has happened at another time.
- Have you (ever) been to Scotland before? (The hearer is probably in Scotland.)
Ever (without before) does not refer to a present event.
- Have you ever been to Africa? (The hearer is not in Africa.)
ever meaning ‘always’
Ever is not normally used to mean ‘always’.
- I shall always remember you. (not
I shall ever remember you.)
But ever is sometimes used to mean ‘always’ in compound expressions with adjectives and participles.
- his ever-open mouth
- evergreen trees
- an ever-increasing debt
- his ever-loving wife
Ever also means ‘always’ in forever (or for ever) and ever since, and in a few other expressions like ever after and Yours ever (used at the end of letters).
- I shall love you forever.
- I’ve admired him ever since I met him.
For who ever, what ever, etc, (see here).
For whoever, whatever, etc, (see here).
For forever with progressive forms, (see here).