Remember or remind?
Remember
If we remember someone or something, we keep that person or thing in our mind or we bring that person or thing back to our mind:
- I will always remember you. You have helped me so much.
- Not:
I will always remind you. - Suddenly I remembered that I had promised to ring my mother.
Remember + to-infinitive means that we don't forget to do something:
- Remember to save your work often, just in case your computer crashes.
Remember + the -ing form of a verb means 'have a memory of something we did or of something that happened in the past':
- I remember meeting her once. It must have been about five years ago.
- Not:
I remember to meet her once ... - She said she didn't remember getting an email from him.
We can also use remember + object + to when we ask someone to 'give regards to' or 'say hello to' someone:
- A: Remember me to your parents when you see them.
B: I will. They always ask about you.
Remind
If a person or thing reminds you of someone or something, they make you think of that person or thing, or they resemble that person or thing:
- That song always reminds me of the time I fell in love with an Italian girl.
- Not:
... always remembers me of the time ... - Jason reminded me of my father. They had the same eyes and the same way of talking.
- Not:
Jason reminded me my father.
If we remind someone to do something or about something, we make them remember it or help them not to forget it:
- He's probably forgotten he was supposed to be here at 6. Shall I ring him and remind him?
- Remind me to email Tony today; otherwise I'll probably forget.
- Not:
Remember me to email Tony today;